How Can You Tell if Your Loved One Might Be at Risk for Suicide?

How Can You Tell if Your Loved One Might Be at Risk for Suicide?

Were you in shock when you heard about Anthony Bourdain’s suicide or that that Kate Spade had taken her life? I was.

Famous, gifted, creative, successful, wealthy–and only 55 years old. I own a few of her designer bags, but what did I really know about her personally? Actually, not much.

So why should I be shocked? Is it perhaps that we are always surprised when someone chooses to die? We ask ourselves why, and wonder what we should have known. While we cannot really predict a suicide attempt, there are sometimes factors and signs to look for.

Let’s go over some signs that your loved one might be in trouble.

The American Foundation for Suicide Prevention recommends that we look at three areas when assessing risk factors for suicide: Health, Environment, and History.

Health

  • Mental Health: There are certain mental and emotional disorders that predict suicidal behavior. These include schizophrenia, mood disorders, anxiety disorders and certain personality disorders.
  • Substance Abuse: Addictions correlate to suicide risk. This includes the abuse of alcohol, drugs and prescription medications.
  • Health Conditions: Major physical illnesses, chronic pain and/or  inability to access medical care can signal suicidal tendencies.
  • Sleep Disorders: Chronic sleep disturbances can create depression and an inability to cope.

Environment

  • Relationships: Lack of a stable support system, loneliness, death of a friend or family member or divorce can cause hopelessness and despair.• Occupational: Watch for the impact of career changes, job loss or any negative changes at work.
  • Prolonged Stress: Especially in young people, prolonged exposure to bullying, harassment or school problems can spell trouble.
  • Financial Difficulties: Money problems have historically been a cause of suicide. People are profoundly impacted, at times, by sudden or catastrophic changes in their finances. Also, an inability to pay bills or losing one’s home can predict suicide.
  • Access to Means: As therapists, we always want to assess a client’s access to firearms, razor blades and drugs that could be used to cause self harm. If you are worried about your loved one, be sure to limit their access.
  • Exposure to Suicide: Exposure to suicide in a loved one, the community or in the media has been shown to increase the suicide rate. “There’s no doubt that there is a contagion effect, says Dr. J. Raymond DePaulo, Jr., Henry Phipps Professor and director of the Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences at the Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine. As a culture, we saw a rise in suicides following the deaths of Marilyn Monroe, Kurt Cobain and Robin Williams. Suicide prevention lines are most likely experiencing a higher than average call volume today.”

History

  • Previous Attempts: It’s never a good sign if your loved one has made attempts on their life in the past.
  • Family History: A family history of suicide can spell trouble. There’s a familiarity with the act. “This is what people in our family do when we feel hopeless or despondent. “
  • History of Self Harm: Any incidences of self harm including, intentional injury to tissue or bones, cutting, carving, burning, hair pulling, etc. might be precursors to suicidal behavior.

There is fairly universal agreement that these three factors, Health, Environment and History, set the conditions for suicidal behavior.

What then are the specific warning signs that your loved one might be in trouble?

  • Verbal Signs: Watch for expressions of hopelessness–that life is not worth living, that their pain is unbearable, that they feel trapped or like a burden.
  • Behavioral Signs: Many people become reckless when planning to suicide. Others withdraw from their relationships, isolating themselves. Beware if your loved one starts calling or visiting people to “say goodbye” or begins giving away some of their favorite possessions. When depressed, people tend to sleep less or more than usual and change their eating habits.
  • Emotional Changes: Suicidal people tend to display a wide array of emotion from depression and despair to anger and rage. Watch for unexplained mood swings or a general worsening of mood.

 

In light of the death of Kate Spade, I hope that we can all become more aware of the signs that our loved ones are in trouble. The American Foundation for Suicide Prevention tell us that suicide is the 10th leading cause of death in the U.S. and that for every suicide there are 25 attempts. My heart goes out to the friends and relatives who did know and love Ms. Spade.

If you are concerned about someone, contact a mental health professional or get them to a nearby treatment center or hospital emergency room. If you are having suicidal thoughts yourself, call one of the many Suicide Prevention Hotlines. There are trained professionals standing by to talk to you. REMEMBER: there is no stigma in asking for help.

Get Help: Call 1-800-SUICIDE  or 1-800-273TALK

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